Fear thrives in the dark. It thrives when things are unclear and vague. It thrives where there is no light or clarity or understanding. If you're dealing with some form of fear concerning any area of your life, it's time to name it. What are you afraid of, exactly? It's time to … [Read more...]
How ‘Sure’ Do You Need To Be?
I want to pursue this project, but I’m not fully sure if I should. I’m thinking of going into this business, but I need to be 100% certain that this is what I should be doing. Perhaps, I should relocate, but don’t I need to be absolutely convinced before I take a … [Read more...]
Are You Man/Woman Enough?
On the podcast today, I share some of my learning points from a recent experience with indecision. Here are some of the podcast highlights: When we need to or want to take a major decision, are we struggling with lack of clarity or are we struggling with fear? Some things … [Read more...]
A Little Help with Making Decisions
I believe many of us take our precious time with decision making because we don’t want to make the wrong decision. This could be a big decision: ‘should I start this business’, ‘should I buy this product’, ‘should I hang out with this person’? Or it could be small decisions like … [Read more...]
You Can Try Again
There you are in a nice comfortable boat. That’s not really where you want to be, but it’s manageable. You look far into the distance and spot your dream destination. It looks so beautiful, inviting and reachable. There is only one problem. This boat of yours will not take you … [Read more...]
Fear and Shadows
My two year-old is afraid of shadows. When he sees a shadow, he shrieks and clings to the nearest adult so tightly. I’ve tried to demystify shadows for him. I’ve wriggled my own hands and created objects with his hands, to help him see that we are the ones that create and control … [Read more...]